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Reminder: We never have the full perspective on anything or anyone. (Including ourselves, honestly, because shadows tend to obscure the shit we don't want to see, but we at least have greater ACCESS to ourselves in theory...) But when we observe others, there are always missing pieces of information. So to draw a conclusion on a situation or person and then act as though our conclusion is somehow correct despite our limited viewpoint is irrational at best, and potentially har

In my personal and professional life, I have come across so many men who are wounded in very specific ways...

I'll be blunt: y'all already suck at communication. Why would you make it harder on yourself? As someone who has literally built my career on teaching people how to communicate in healthy, pro-social ways, I promise you cannot afford to atrophy those muscles any further.

A tip for women who date men: in my opinion, it is a huge red flag if a man does not have any female friends. Why? Because a man who does not have any female friends does not actually like women.